The Denied Humanity of Poor Folk

Devon Wade

middle-class-refrigeratorOver the past couple of years, I have notice an unnerving trend in my social circles, both on and offline as well as in the media, regarding the way many highly educated and middle-upper class individuals talk about the poor. To be frank, the sentiments have been downright dehumanizing. The use of platforms such as Facebook and Twitter for sharing media content and individual status opinions about social issues (outside of friendships and pictures) is a relatively new phenomenon. And as a millennial, social media has been the primary vehicle for which I have witnessed a proliferation of disparaging views about the poor. The considerable amount of poor shaming both nationally and in my social media networks compelled me to write this piece. And I do not wish for this piece to be a regurgitation of the facts and numbers surrounding the poor and their spending, although I’ll certainly point you in the direction of resources that do. Rather, I wish to make a moral appeal for the ways in which we view and empathize with the poor or those who receive government assistance. Because evidently we have come to unabashedly and routinely punish and shame the poor for being poor.

Examples of poor shaming are everywhere. For example, lawmakers in the state of Missouri who are pushing to ban food stamp recipients from buying steak and seafood; the case of New York City’s highly sought after affordable apartments in new condos with a special “poor door” to distinguish low-income renters from full price buyers; or even in the recent Texas pool party fiasco where the alleged impetus for the dispute began when a white female resident told black female resident to go back to her Section 8 home – because apparently if you are Black and live in a home in the suburbs, the only way you could afford it is if you were receiving some form of government assistance. People often share online articles that demonize the poor attached to a status that says something to the effect of “see these lazy folk are sitting up living good off my hard earned tax dollars” or, “how dare they be walking around [in, with, or doing] xyz and they are on xyz type of assistance. And Lord help me: if I see that exhausted meme comparing an empty refrigerator of a non-welfare recipient to a stocked fridge of a supposed welfare recipient floating around my timeline again, I WILL LOSE IT!

Unfortunately, these sentiments are not in the least bit surprising. You see, in America we tend to believe that all it takes is hard work and strong ethics to succeed. And hell, if you don’t succeed, then you must not have the same work ethic and determination as the rest of us hardworking citizens. Thus, you are the cause for your own failures and no one else. This sort of ‘pull-yourself-up-by-the-bootstraps’ mentality is an irresistible narrative for most Americans in this country to explain our success and the failures of others. It offers a convenient, guilt-free way of disregarding the root causes of our poverty issues. Structural inequalities have a lot more to do with producing stratification and stagnation for certain groups of people than their attitudes and orientation to work.

resized_philosoraptor-meme-generator-if-they-re-receiving-welfare-checks-why-do-they-have-200-sneakers-on-57b3bfSeemingly, we feel entitled to dictate how poor folk should not only live, but also how they get use their private money. The logic being that as policymakers, taxpayers and officials, who are not poor but hard working people, we are best qualified offer you the best advice for how to help yourself out of poverty – key phrase being “help yourself.” The problem with that logic is that we assume that the majority of poor people and those on government assistance do not work, cannot manage their finances or have no aspirations to get out of poverty – assumptions that place all failure back on the individual. In reality however, many are sometimes working multiple jobs, and are still unable to make ends meet – largely due hourly wage inequality. But with that faulty assumption in mind, many employed middle and upper class people go on to draw comparisons between their working hard everyday and welfare recipients, as if these people are not working.

This is where we deny the humanity of poor folk. We do this by putting them under an intense social microscope, watching their every move and dictating what they should and should not do. Waiting for that one moment when they slip up and actually start to live like a “regular person.” Because if you did not know, when you sign up for welfare and government assistance, you should no longer want nice things for you or your family, you should relinquish your taste and budget for non-generic brands and foods, and you should bargain shop for your clothes and goods. Why? Because why should I help you get the same things as I? I am entitled to those things because I worked hard for them. And also, the little bit of money you get from your multiple jobs to make ends meet, yeah, you shouldn’t spend that like regular folk do either. Save it for a rainy day. As if everyday isn’t rainy in the lives of people who cannot afford to think about the future most times!

You see the terrifying thing about poverty and structural inequality is that they are persistent and deep. The sad truth is that, if a poor person decides not to pay $170 for a pair of Air Jordan’s, refrains from going to the nail shop or salon, and completely abstains from buying steak and shrimp a few times, that would not pull them out of the depths of poverty. Being poor has much more to do with stubborn and complex inequalities than it has to do with an individual’s spending patterns. And what is even more alarming than the ways we talk so disparagingly about the poor, are the way in which we deny them the ability to bring some sort of solace and comfort to their lives because they are poor. Here, I am reminded of Nikki Giovanni’s 2007 public critique of Bill Cosby’s respectability politics on the matter of poor Black parents. She in essence argues, how dare we critique Black parents for aspiring to endow and give their kids the best – whatever they think that to be. It is contradictory to this country’s capitalist orientation and the way other parents reward and treat their children through the purchase of goods. All parents ultimately want what is best for their kids, but poor Black and Brown poor parents get surveillance and policed in strict ways.

More importantly, does it not seem like an insensitive encroachment into an individual’s personal life to dictate how they seek to bring happiness to themselves or their families in whatever way they deem fitting? Because when living in perpetual poverty, largely due to generations of structural inequalities, one way of coping or surviving is to invest in things that bring joy to you and your kids lives. Even if that means going into debt for Christmas to buy toys or gifts, spending the last little bit of money you have on a family outing because it will bring you all closer, or buying that expensive prom dress for your daughter because you know it is a night she will remember forever. The blunt reality is that many won’t escape poverty. Those bills will still be there, the struggle of living paycheck to paycheck will still be there no matter how much they deny themselves and their family’s pleasures. But what is possible, is to use the little bit of means they do have, even while being on assistance, to bring joy to their loved ones or themselves every once in a while. We shouldn’t deny them of that choice by saying they shouldn’t be able to do things others with money can do simply because they are poor. Our tax dollars, even the extremely small amount that actually goes to welfare, does not give us the right to take away their dignity. The poor should be able to do more than just worry about surviving. That is dehumanizing.

The way we talk about poor folk has to change. We must resist the classist, and yes racist (Google welfare queens), narratives we draw upon and then ascribe onto the lives of poor folks. The ability to resist these narratives and develop empathy for the poor was a learned process on my end. Over the course of the last eight years, all of which I have mostly spent in or near institutions of higher learning, I have experienced the unique transition of moving from an impoverished neighborhood and family context to mostly isolated middle-class environments – a difficult move to make in America. I went from an environment where many of my peers and family members were simply surviving, although they did not see themselves as poor, to an environment filled with notions of meritocracy and disparaging views of the poor. My social networks expanded tremendously, but in a skewed sort of way. As a bright eyed, fresh-out-of-the-hood young college student experiencing newfound mobility, who was I to resist this dominant socializing narrative that told me, I made it because I worked hard and that my peers were left behind because they simply did not try hard enough? Fortunately, a few sociology and ethnic studies courses revised this faulty logic early on. However, for many others, the dominant bootstrap narrative is never really disputed. This pushed me to think more critically about my evolving class identity and the expectation that higher education would make me upwardly mobile. I began to consider what it meant to hold views about the poor as a boy not far removed from poverty. This sort of introspection about my class identity and background allowed me to develop a more empathic view of the poor. I hope the thoughts I’ve shared here inspire you to revisit your thoughts about poverty in the same way that critical sociology and ethnic studies spawned a new way of thinking for me.

Resources for extra reading outside of links provided in article:

– Welfare and Risk Indicators – Government Report to Congress

Putting Welfare Fraud in Context 

No Poor Aren’t Poor Because They Waste Money

1 thought on “The Denied Humanity of Poor Folk

  1. I agree completely. I’m appalled at how we treat the poor. The odd thing about it is, the average person is just on the edge of being poor. With the ups and down if the economy and people getting laid off and losing their homes, a lot of middle class folk are staring poverty in the face.

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